Blog2022-03-04T17:17:55+01:00

In this blog, I am sharing with you some insights, evidence-based strategies to deal with stress and overwhelm, as well as lessons learned and stories about my own journey.

My intention is to support you on your journey walking home to yourself that may sometimes be scary, but always so very worthwhile!

The Myth about our Need to be Kind, Loving, Forgiving and Compassionate

The Myth about our Need to be Kind, Loving, Forgiving and Compassionate In the past weeks, I received a few questions from somatic inquiry practitioners, members of the NRFS Members Area (https://kiloby.com/members-signup/) wondering if it would be helpful to combine KI repression self-inquiry with other practices, e.g., a forgiveness practice like Ho’oponopono or a loving kindness meditation, so I wanted to share my experience here as it may support [...]

March 7th, 2024|

Healing requires Feeling: Including What You Buried

Accessing Buried Emotions Takes More Than Courage and Willingness People regularly ask me whether Kiloby Inquiries are comparable to other modalities I have trained in. I wanted to share a sliver of my story here as my views on this question are informed by my direct experience, and it’s only from that place that I can share authentically. More than 10 years ago, a perfect storm, including a health crisis, [...]

October 14th, 2023|

Kiloby Inquiries 3D Reversing Emotional and Energetic Repression

When our own emotions become a threat and the work of dismantling the programming designed to avoid this threat “Shift from pursuing pain avoidance to opening your heart Allowing ease, joy, aliveness, and love to enter” This has been my practice’s tagline for the past 5 years, and it continues to feel authentic and deeply meaningful to me. It actually feels much more aligned to me today after diving into [...]

August 20th, 2023|

How Lessons from Mr. Bean helped my Healing Journey

The Connection between Repression, Chronic Pain, Awakening and Mr. Bean Encouraged and surrounded by wonderful friends, I spent a good part of the last 10 years on a healing journey to a point of full recovery, completed training in a host of modalities, many somatic inquiry based at its core, and then built a practice serving others. However, something held me back from sharing my story in more depth outside [...]

January 24th, 2023|

Lifting the Veil to the Root of Your Decisions

How Unraveling the Driving Forces underneath Decisions can Lead to a Shift from Overwhelm to Ease and Joy “Helping, fixing, and serving represent three different ways of seeing life. When you help, you see life as weak. When you fix, you see life as broken. When you serve, you see life as whole. Fixing and helping may be the work of the ego, and service the work of the [...]

June 22nd, 2022|

Why We Remain Stuck With What We Know And The Way Out

“The intuitive mind is a sacred gift, and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honours the servant and has forgotten the gift.” What a powerful quote by Albert Einstein and so poignant for this time where the patriarchy is crumbling down and yet fighting back with a vengeance. The mind is still considered the holy grail by many even though we all [...]

May 10th, 2022|

What is Ready To Blossom Through You?

“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.” – Anais Nin I consider my feelings as direction indicators ❁ pointing me to alignment, ❁ signalling misalignment, or ❁ calling for growth … You may wonder what this last one is about … it may be tricky so I just explain. Some consider feelings of [...]

April 15th, 2022|

Kindness Needs to be a Choice, Not a Survival Strategy

Self-sacrifice and People-pleasing is NOT the Same as Kindness Self-sacrifice and people-pleasing may look like kindness, but it isn’t nice at all. Kindness can be deeply healing AND Too often I see kindness used as a survival strategy. As the only option ... There is another way. I have written about people-pleasing before but inspired by a conversation with a friend this morning, I feel called to bring a [...]

March 22nd, 2022|

Your Own Inner Peace is not only Possible but also Essential to Forge a Path towards World Peace

Finding Peace While Swimming in a Collective Soup of Trauma We are all living our own unique soup of experiences, while connected and swimming in a collective soup of chaos. As I continue to sit in the unknown, going through life on a day-by-day basis, still living from our 3 suitcases since we left Canada in August last year, I notice my own inner polarities as I listen to [...]

March 4th, 2022|

Pay Attention to the Meaning You Assign to Experiences

❂ Happy 22 / 02 / 2022 ❂ One of the main things I really learned at a much deeper level in the last two years is that where my attention goes determines where my energy and frequency will flow. A day has 1440 minutes (I may tell my kids too often, hence I remember by heart 😂), we can choose where we focus our attention and energy. Does anyone [...]

February 22nd, 2022|